In 1855 after a five year sojourn in Australia the 22 year Francis Rowe and his eldest brother John made the decision to move to New Zealand. He had, in 1850, as a 17 year old emigrated with his family to Adelaide, Australia from the village of St Agnes in Cornwall. As far as we know the rest of his family remainded in Australia.
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Upon returning to town they purchased a property in Codrington St, Arch Hill. Francis began a forwarding agents business located at the wharf area in down town Auckland. The couple had thirteen children, although four of those died at birth or shortly there after. Mary, my Gr Grandmother, was their fourth child and born in 1863.
During the New Zealand Wars Frank, being a married man, served with the militia defending the boundaries of Auckland, from blockhouse to blockhouse on the "top belt" from Parnell to Arch Hill on the Gt North Road. It was arduous work in the dark, for if a man missed the blank he was sure to go up to his knees in the mud. There was also an element of risk (apart from being killed by a Maori), as on one occassion the rear rank man slipped into the mud and put a bayonet through the shoulder of his mate in front. The above picture is of my Gr Gr Grandparents Francis and Mary Rowe (nee Trevarthen) in their later years. It was Mary who came out on the Bolton when she was 4.
Francis Rowe died in Sep 1921 aged 88, and his death notice read, "A genial, good natured man, he made many friends who recongised his many sterling qualities".
Lancelot Trevarthen Hobson, pictured in this photo is my grandfather, on Mum's side. He's pictured here in his First WW uniform and was probably 20 at the time. Thankfully the war ended before Lance was called overseas. His eldest brother William, however, was killed in action seven days into the battle of the Somme and is buried at Armenttieres in France. Lance had two other sibblings Elizabeth and Frank, my Gr Aunty and Uncle, pictured here in this photo. We had a lot to do with Aunty Cissy growing up, as we were her only living family. She lived in Grey Lynn and we spent many school holiday's staying with her and taking trolly bus trips into Karangahape Road to go shopping. It was a "respectible" place to go in those days.
Lance, was a draper by trade and owned a shop in Avondale. He married Hilda May Coulam in 1923 and Mum was born in Feb 1927. He was a kind and gentle man and although I was only three when he passed away in 1954, at the age of 57, I can still member him taking me up to the dairy in his Vauxhall car to buy me, and my cousin Philip, an ice cream.
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Francis Rowe died in Sep 1921 aged 88, and his death notice read, "A genial, good natured man, he made many friends who recongised his many sterling qualities".
Mary Rowe (nee Trevarthen), whom you have already met in a previous post, died in July 1920 at her home in Newton, she was 85. It was said of her, "she was most highly esteemed by the many friends she made during her long life in Auckland. As far as the Newton Congregational Church was concerned, she was a veritable 'Mother in Israel'.
Here is a photo of my Gr Grandmother Mary Hobson (nee Rowe) who married John George Hobson, in Australia in 1889. It appears that they moved to Australia where they were married and had their first two children, William and Elizabeth, before returning to Auckland where Mary gave birth to Francis and then finally my Grandfather Lancelot Trevarthen Hobson in Jan 1897.
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The photo on the right is of my mum, taken on christmas day 1959, when she was 32.
Well thats the Trevarthen / Rowe / Hobson connection, the family of my mothers father. Now its time to get to know Mum's mothers family.
The Coulam Clan
The Coulam family has it's rootes in France. They are from the town of Coulommiers 60km east of Paris, and moved to England in 1066 at the time of William the Conqueror.
The Coulams, with strong Protestant family rootes, come from a village called Brinkhill in the county of Lincolnshire in England.
Samuel and Anne Coulam (nee Solden), my Gr Gr Gr Grandparents, we think, emigrated from Lincolnshire, via Liverpool on the "James Booth" to Melbourne in 1861, and then onto Auckland, however we have no passenger list to prove that. They followed a number of their children, who had come out a few years earlier.
The Williams Connection
Henry Williams the CMS missionary, and later of the Treaty of Waitangi and "land jobbing" fame, was married to Marianne Coldham. Marianne was a cousin of the Coulam family and apparently a prolific writer of letters back home to her family.
It is believed that her letters may have convinced the Coulams that New Zealand was, if not Utopia, then at least a place of opportunity. Marianne was the same age as Samuel Coulam (Snr), mentioned above.
My Gr Gr Grandmother Mary Coulam (nee Taylor) was a friend of Esther and Elisa Coulam, and the three young girls, along with Esthers new husband Joseph Phillips, came to New Zealand from London at 21 years of age on the "Whirlwind" in Apr 1859, arriving in Auckland July 1859. The picture here is of Hainton Hall, Mary's family home in Lincolnshire.
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The McDonnells from Ireland
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The McDonnell's are a Catholic family from Tipperary in Ireland, although Mary McDonnell, who became Samuel Coulam's wife, was born in Waterford in Ireland. Thomas's occupantion was noted as a farm labourer. They lived in the barricks at the top of Shortland St, and later opposite St Matthews church in Wellesley St. This picture is of my Gr Grandmother Mary Coulam (nee McDonnell)
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Mary has passed on the story that while living in Taranaki, at a time when Samuel was away working in the bush, she was at home on the farm. She was looking after the children at the time, when she looked outside and saw a Maori with a feather in his headress, carrying a tomahawk, creeping around the house. She lived to tell the tale. Hilda May Hobson (Nee Coulam), my Grandmother was born in Jun 1901. This photo is of Nana's family, she is standing, third from the left.
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Following Mary's death in 1935 at, the age of 66, Samuel lived with Nana's family in Avondale and died in 1947 aged 78.
Francis Coulam (Nana's brother), fought in Galipolli, Egypt and the Western front during the 1st WW and died on Armisters Day of the Flu in Auckland in Nov 1918. The above photo is of my Gr Gandfather and Gr Grandmother Coulam, with Nana and Mum on the right,
This photo is of my Grandparents Lancelot and Hilda Hobson (nee Coulam) on their wedding day in Feb 1924.
And now you have met them all, the Trevarthen, Rowes, Hobsons, Coulams and McDonnells, the ancestors on my Mum's side of the family, and your Grandmother.
Source material and additional reading:
Oooooh Nonnie! (What a hot woman!)
ReplyDeleteAnd Lance was handsome. I like Lance. Lancelot. That's a cool name. So cool that you have those icecream memories!
So, did anyone run away with the stable boy!?
(This is awesome by the way!)
Haven't found her yet, could be Mary Taylor, who lived in the big house, came to NZ and married George :-)
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ReplyDeleteSorry is a confusing post above ill try to sumerise
ReplyDeleteMary Hannah Taylor (Heneage) - is there proof of that like with the mothers and fathers name
Mary was born on May 4 1838, in Gedney,Lincolnshire
The owners of Hanton Estate. Have a daughter called
Mary Anne Heneage, however she is married to F Aicken(1770)
https://www.ancestry.com/genealogy/records/f-aicken_36900746
ps Im super new at looking at records.... so possibly i'm wrong
would be kind of fun though to be right :P (we'd be related in a weird way to charles ii)
hainton hall lincolnshire
https://www.aerialphotography.org.uk/Lincolnshire/Hainton-Hall-2/i-f8jFphX
Hi there, your nanna's brother Francis (Frank) was one of my Grandfathers (George McLaren) best mates in WW1. They served together from Trentham Camp as reinforcements, right up through Gallipoli, the Somme & the Battle of Messines. George then was pulled out of the unit before the Battle of Passchendaele, where Frank won the Military Medal for bravery. They never saw each other again. I have a couple of photo's of him ... and several entries in George's WW1 diaries mention Frank. Happy to share with you. Feel free to email me at smclaren (dot) hotmail.com .Did you know if Frank kept a war diary by any chance ? Best regards. Steve.
ReplyDeletewhoops .... smclaren (at) hotmail.com
DeleteHi Steve, Would be amazing if you could add the photos to the museum online memorial they have They already have a page for both George and Frank - with a upload page (link provided)
ReplyDeleteDad has Franks medals after grand dad died (but its been amazing to see all the family photos here many are new for me and wonderful being able to put faces to names - Frank is still spoken of with much love and none of them forgotten.
A for a diary, its possible others have something, but with it being such a large family it might take a while to find out who had it if there is one,
best of luck and many thanks too :)
Best regards
Natalie
http://www.aucklandmuseum.com/war-memorial/online-cenotaph/record/C49669
Hi Natalie,
DeleteYep, I had already uploaded one photo of my Grandfather George seated with Frank, Henry Rowe and a Pte Black (who I am still researching). Had you seen that ? Its a great photo.
I also added a photo of Franks dog tags that were sold on TradeMe some years ago. Sad that they are no longer in the family.
Let me know if you ever find a war diary from Frank, I would be very keen to see a copy.
Also, did you know that Frank was sent home with Shell Shock ? That is mentioned in George's diary.
And finally ... have you read this ? https://ww100.govt.nz/courage-under-fire-stories-from-the-auckland-infantry-battalion
Thanks. Steve
Thanks so much Steve - yes we had already printed those out for the family album, but it is really nice to have them! - and such a shame such fine young men had to go through such hell for a few royal family's to reshuffle their wealth - they sounded like such lovable fun ad inspiring characters! (George your granddad dad are also is remembered very well) - since im a further generation down we have much less that is tangible, but just a real sense of loss remains at how unfair it was to loose them - I know my granddad was very fond of of Frank, George, Alf and Jack) and dad very proud of them all.
Deletebut we really know very little of the family history after those generations - So i'm trying to collect some for the family :)
Best
Natalie
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ReplyDeleteALso found this:
ReplyDeleteTAYLOR, Mary, b. Abt 1839, Long Sutton, Lincolnshire, England my great great grandmother
census (1851) lists her at 12 years of age as a dress makers assistant in the census records
Individual Report for TAYLOR, Mary (I6531)
All records are sourced from the national archives they dont have the records of Mary marrying George Coulam - May 3 1865, Grey Lynn,Auckland,New Zealand) But that is in the NZ Births Death and Marriages - so 100% are part of the documented lineage.
http://www.briangriffiths.me.uk/tng/getperson.php?personID=I6531&tree=BG_TREE#
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ReplyDeleteSo it seems after a good look
ReplyDeleteMost certainly we spring from some Heneage's most likely however we are actually part of the older undocumented siblings dating from the 12 century The first 3 generations records list only the inheriting son and not even the Wives names! Sir Robert de Heneage is known to have lived at Hainton
The house isn't our great great grandmothers- but a memory of the family as it was part of their ancestral story
Still that's pretty cool!
We spring most-likely from the working class families of that family who worked as Farmers withing Lincolnshire and Nottingham
But I managed to find is 3 more missing generations :)
I wont post them all
Mary
Hannah
Taylor
1837 - 1873
long sutton,Lincolnshire
Dressmaker's Assistant
George Coulam
1833 (74)
BrinkHill, Lincolnshire, United Kingdom
April 02, 1907 (74)
Auckland, New Zealand
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Marys Parents
TAYLOR, James Wickham
(1790-1874)
Cropwell Butler, Nottinghamshire, England
Died 29 Dec 1874 Long Sutton, Lincolnshire, England
HENEAGE, Mary (Taylor)
bap 1799- d. 11 Jan 1872
Moulton, Lincolnshire, England
Schoolmistress
Married 5 May 1820 to TAYLOR, James Wickham
Spalding, Lincolnshire, England
1.TAYLOR, Elizabeth E, b.Abt 1823, Spalding, Lincolnshire, England
2.TAYLOR, Joseph Wickham, b.1825, Spalding, Lincolnshire, England, d.28 Jul 1882, Long Sutton
3.TAYLOR, Francis, b.Abt 1836, Long Sutton, Lincolnshire, England
4.TAYLOR, Mary, b.Abt 1839, Long Sutton, Lincolnshire, England
5.TAYLOR, Fanny Heneage, b.1841, Long Sutton, Lincolnshire, England
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Marys Grand Parents
Robert Heneage from Gedney
Married To Elizabeth Bycroft
08 Aug 1784
Lincolnshire Parish Registers - Marriages volume 2
Elizabeth Bycroft Baptism date 16 Sep 1751 Moulton
Mary born? d.06 Oct 1798 Lincolnshire Moulton All Saints
Mary Baptism 08 May 1799 Lincolnshire Moulton
John born? - d.20 Oct 1798 Lincolnshire Moulton All Saints
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I did manage to get it back up 2 generations further
but if youd like this just ping me its too much to post
All sourced from original church documents and some census records
Natalie,
DeleteI'm fairly sure that the Robert Heneage and Elizabeth Bycroft you refer to are my 4x great grandparents. Their eldest son Robert was born in 1775 near Gedney and emigrated to America in 1817 aboard the ship Betsey. I'd be happy to share what documentation I have, and would love to see the additional information you have as well.
Best,
Bob Heneage
Correction to birth year above--1795
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I think we're related. Samuel was my great-great-great-grandfather. George was my great-great-grandfather. George Wright was my great-grandfather. Allan was my grandfather. Ralph was my father. And I'm Richard.
ReplyDeleteVery likely! My Grandfather was Selwyn.
DeleteSamuel & Mary Coulam, my great grandfather and mother - His parents Garth is my dad - I'm Natalie :)
George Coulam was also my great-great grandfather and his father Samuel Coulam was my great-great-great grandfather. There are many trees giving Samuel's parents as George Coulam and Mary Foreman, but my family's oral (and written) history that has been handed down gives Samuels parents as John Coulam and Josannah Ward. Ward was also my grandmother's middle name. Does anyone know more about this?
ReplyDeletethere is a Utah branch of Coulams that split off with John Coulam married to Johannah Ward (also spelled Josannah in some other sites I had looked at) , I remember seeing it a while back
ReplyDelete(but the site info is unverified by birth certificates etc which ensure accuracy - might be enough to follow up on however)
http://preceding.me/john-coulam-1769-married-johannah-ward.html